free will?

Problems that rise some interesting questions:

http://www.economist.com/opinion/displaystory.cfm?story_id=8453850

when you're born a lover, you're born to suffer

Here, somewhere in the heart of me
There is still a part of me
That cares

And i'll, I'll still take the best you've got
Even though I'm sure its not
The best for me

When you're born a lover
You're born to suffer
Like all soul sisters
And soul brothers

I, I can see the danger signs
They only help to underline
Your beauty

I'm not looking for an easy ride
True happiness cannot be tried
So easily

When you're born a lover
You're born to suffer
Like all soul sisters
And soul brothers

Like all soul sisters
And soul brothers

You can take your time
Ill be waiting in line
You don't even have to give me
The time of day

When you're born a lover
You're born to suffer
Like all soul sisters
And soul brothers

Like all soul sisters
And soul brothers

why?

Why does it have to be the same every time? Every time just emptiness inside, and a heart that can bleed no more. Why does this happen? I knew from the start that it was too good to be happening to me, but I hoped with all my being for it to be true.
Something tells me that it would have been better if today never existed... I wish I could show you how I feel about you, I wish I haven't done all those things that made you leave, I wish you would stay...